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Best Conversation Starters for Couples

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Good communication is key to keeping a close relationship strong. For couples who spend a lot of time with each other, what can you talk about to spice things up and bring you closer?

  • If you could choose anyone in the world, who would you want to invite to dinner?
  • Would you like to be famous? In what way?
  • Do you practice what you're going to say before you make the call? Why?
  • What would be a “perfect” day for you?
  • When was the last time you sang to yourself? When was the last time you sang to someone else?
  • If you could live to be 90 years old and you had the choice of keeping your mind or body in your 30's for the next 60 years, which would you choose?
  • Do you have a secret hunch about how you might die in the future?
  • List 3 traits you share with each other.
  • What are you most thankful for in your life?
  • If you could change anything about your upbringing, what would you want to change?
  • Take 4 minutes to tell the other person your life story in as much detail as possible.
  • If you could wake up tomorrow morning with any one ability or trait, what would it be?
  • If there was a crystal ball that could tell you all the truth about yourself, your life, or your future, what would you want to know?
  • What's something you've wanted to do for a long time? What's the reason you haven't done it yet?
  • What is your greatest achievement in life?
  • What part of a friendship do you value most?
  • What is your most precious memory?
  • What is your worst memory?
  • If you knew you were going to die suddenly within a year, would you change your current lifestyle? Why?
  • What do friendships mean to you?
  • What role do love and affection play in your life?
  • Take turns sharing what you think are the better character traits the other person has. Make 5 points each.
  • Were your family relationships close and warm? Do you feel you had a happier childhood than most people?
  • How was your relationship with your mother?
  • Name 3 sentences that contain the word 'we' and are realistic, e.g. 'We are all in this room now'.
  • Finish the sentence: 'I wish I could share - with someone.'
  • If you were to become the person's close friend, what is one thing he or she would need to know?
  • Tell the other person what you like about him or her (you have to be very honest in answering this question; say things you probably wouldn't say to someone you just met).
  • Share an embarrassing moment in your life with the person.
  • When was the last time you cried in front of someone? And when was the last time you cried yourself?
  • Tell the other person what you like about him or her right now.
  • What's one thing you should never joke about?
  • If you were going to die tonight and couldn't contact anyone, what is the one thing you regret not telling someone yet? Why haven't you told them yet?
  • Your house is on fire and all your belongings are inside. After rescuing loved ones and pets, you still have time to safely salvage one last thing. What would you take? Why?
  • Of all your family members, whose death would hit you the hardest? Why?
  • Share a problem in your life and ask the other person what they would do with such a problem. Also ask the other person to tell you how you feel about the problem in his or her opinion.

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  1. If you could choose anyone in the world, who would you want to invite to dinner?
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  2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
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  3. Do you practice what you're going to say before you make the call? Why?
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  4. What would be a “perfect” day for you?
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  5. When was the last time you sang to yourself? When was the last time you sang to someone else?
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  6. If you could live to be 90 years old and you had the choice of keeping your mind or body in your 30's for the next 60 years, which would you choose?
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  7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you might die in the future?
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  8. List 3 traits you share with each other.
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  9. What are you most thankful for in your life?
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  10. If you could change anything about your upbringing, what would you want to change?
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  11. Take 4 minutes to tell the other person your life story in as much detail as possible.
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  12. If you could wake up tomorrow morning with any one ability or trait, what would it be?
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  13. If there was a crystal ball that could tell you all the truth about yourself, your life, or your future, what would you want to know?
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  14. What's something you've wanted to do for a long time? What's the reason you haven't done it yet?
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  15. What is your greatest achievement in life?
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  16. What part of a friendship do you value most?
    Delete
  17. What is your most precious memory?
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  18. What is your worst memory?
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  19. If you knew you were going to die suddenly within a year, would you change your current lifestyle? Why?
    Delete
  20. What do friendships mean to you?
    Delete
  21. What role do love and affection play in your life?
    Delete
  22. Take turns sharing what you think are the better character traits the other person has. Make 5 points each.
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  23. Were your family relationships close and warm? Do you feel you had a happier childhood than most people?
    Delete
  24. How was your relationship with your mother?
    Delete
  25. Name 3 sentences that contain the word 'we' and are realistic, e.g. 'We are all in this room now'.
    Delete
  26. Finish the sentence: 'I wish I could share - with someone.'
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  27. If you were to become the person's close friend, what is one thing he or she would need to know?
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  28. Tell the other person what you like about him or her (you have to be very honest in answering this question; say things you probably wouldn't say to someone you just met).
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  29. Share an embarrassing moment in your life with the person.
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  30. When was the last time you cried in front of someone? And when was the last time you cried yourself?
    Delete
  31. Tell the other person what you like about him or her right now.
    Delete
  32. What's one thing you should never joke about?
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  33. If you were going to die tonight and couldn't contact anyone, what is the one thing you regret not telling someone yet? Why haven't you told them yet?
    Delete
  34. Your house is on fire and all your belongings are inside. After rescuing loved ones and pets, you still have time to safely salvage one last thing. What would you take? Why?
    Delete
  35. Of all your family members, whose death would hit you the hardest? Why?
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  36. Share a problem in your life and ask the other person what they would do with such a problem. Also ask the other person to tell you how you feel about the problem in his or her opinion.
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